What's Happening to the Next Generation of Chefs — And It's Not Just About Age
Let me be clear from the start. This isn't about young people. I've worked with twenty-year-olds who were sharp, resilient, and hungry to learn. I've also worked with people in their thirties and forties who fell apart the moment someone questioned their work. Age isn't the issue. How you were raised is. The kitchen exposes everything. There is nowhere to hide in a professional kitchen. The pressure is real. The criticism is constant. The mistakes are visible. And how someone responds tells you everything about who they are — not as a cook, but as a person. What I keep seeing is the same pattern regardless of age. Can't take feedback. Can't handle pressure. Nothing is ever their fault. There is always an excuse, always someone else to blame. The salt container was faulty. The ticket was wrong. Nobody told them. Two very different backgrounds. Same result. The first is the over-protected. Small family, only child, parents who solved every problem and never...